Saturday, December 21, 2019

Humans Cannot Thrive in Isolation

Divide and Conquer

That is an age-old strategy of the enemy.  If we can be separated from those who love us, care for us, and will help us when we are down - we are much easier to conquer.

We risk the loss of so many things dear to us, starting with our joy.

Don't fall for the enemy's strategy and fight the desire for isolation.

A battle is a battle and we can't surrender or stop the fight.

You are not in it alone - God has this battle won and the enemy defeated!

Pray and ask for His Victory!

We Live In Victory!!!

Wednesday, December 4, 2019

God Reaches the Ends of the Earth


The little things in life are important. God cares about those seemingly minuscule issues we face on a daily basis.

Yet, let's not forget the enormity of God and his reach. 

His power to touch the microscopic in our life also extends around the earth to influence and change the seemingly unchangeable and untouchable enormous problems of His creation and His people. 

Thank the Lord for His love and mercy!

 9      We have thought, O God, on Your lovingkindness,
    In the midst of Your temple.a
    10      According to Your name, O God,
    So is Your praise to the ends of the earth;
    Your right hand is full of righteousness.
    11      Let Mount Zion rejoice,
    Let the daughters of Judah be glad,
    Because of Your judgments.

The New King James Version. (1982). (Ps 48:9–11). Nashville: Thomas Nelson.

Thursday, October 31, 2019

Facebook Fact Checking Political Ads is Ridiculous

The idea that Facebook should fact check political advertisements is the next ridiculous statement to come out of Washington. 

The fact that our politicians can't fact check themselves should be the 1st clue that this is not only impossible but also a standard 
not held by those who insist upon it.

I think back to the presidential and congressional races in the past. Do you remember the day that the TV advertisements started adding the following phrase to the end of the commercial, 
"I am George Bush and I approve this message"? 
False advertising and manipulation of the political process have been going for decades via multiple methods, social media being the most current.

It isn't realistic to think that Facebook could even remotely have the ability to fact check political advertisements when the information coming out of Washington is consistently false or interpreted differently depending on who is distributing the information.

Twitter announced they will not allow political advertisements. That is one way to handle the influence of Russia, China, and other countries who have mastered the art of political deception of the American people via their most popular and destructive past time - social media.

Wednesday, July 3, 2019

Past is prologue and shouldn't be ignored.

What is past is prologue. Because we tend to live for the moment, history is often ignored. We can never escape the past. What we have been shapes what we are and what we will become. (1.)

Too often we try to erase the past instead of embracing our entire life. Looking back I see steps and pits. It's when pits become steps that I can truly move forward. :)
My two cents for the day :) - Sheri

(1.)McGee, G., Newberry, A., & Hedlun, R. (2010). Assemblies of God history, missions, and governance : An independent-study textbook (Fifth Edition., p. 85). Springfield, MO: Global University.

Saturday, January 12, 2019

Women in India Enter Temple Closed Off to Women for Centuries

Sabarimala Shrine Temple
photo attribution:
AnjanaMenon at Malayalam Wikipedia

Author: Sheri Smith

New Delhi in the southern state of Kerala, India.

On Jan. 2, 2019, two Hindu women were escorted into the Sabarimala Shrine Temple, a temple that had been closed to women for centuries. The country’s Supreme Court overturned a ban on women of menstruating age,  from entering the temple. It was ruled to be discriminatory against women.

Since the ruling, extensive and consistent riots have been held outside the temple in an attempt to keep women from entering.

Bindu Ammini, 40, a law lecturer at a university and Kanaka Durga, 39, a civil servant, were determined to enter the once banned temple.

The women were escorted by police to the temple where they entered early in the morning on Wednesday, January 2nd. Afterwards, the two women went into hiding, fearing retribution.
Protests have been fierce causing police to use tear gas and water cannons to calm the riots.

The temple is thought to be over 800 years old. It is believed the spirit of the Lord Ayyappa, the Hindu god of growth, dwells there. Ayyappa is considered celibate and allowing women of menstruating age into the temple would be disrespectful and an abomination.

The local government is run by the Communist Party of India-Marxist and the temple is run by the Hindu Nationalist Party. 

Earlier this week approximately 5 million female protesters participated in a peaceful protest, forming a human chain extending about 385 miles. This was done in support of these two women and others who showed great courage in going to the temple that was once banned.

A chain of women stretching 385 miles. Selah. 

Contemplate that for a minute. 

This human chain represented so much more than two women entering one temple. The rights of women around the world were represented in that chain.

Back to rights. What about the rights of men in India?

While women pursue the right to enter any place of worship to pray, I must ask myself, will men be allowed into the at least eight temples where they are restricted?

Will the supreme court rule all temples must be opened to both genders?

As a religion and society, is equality and equal opportunity always required? Is segregation permitable in certain circumstances and what would those circumstances be?

These questions are not meant to disagree with the rights of women to worship freely at any temple.  To have a law that women of child bearing age cannot enter a specific temple is beyond comprehension. Although to some of those who follow the Hindu religion and the laws and customs of their gods, this law is completely acceptable.

Much of what we see isn’t about equality but about the chains of oppression being lifted from the entire female population. While American women have embraced the me too movement, the Hindu women have embraced the freedom of religion movement.

Is it morally, ethically, and legally wrong to permit men to worship at a temple without women? Yet, in this case it isn’t all women, just women of child bearing age?

Is it morally, ethically, and legally wrong to permit women to worship at a temple without men?
Is society required to respect the religious beliefs of a people group when those beliefs are contrary to other’s religious beliefs?

Women standing up to be heard, respected, given opportunity, and value is always right.

The oppression of women is denied by many a person, who have never experienced it, yet it is alive to those who have to live it.

Saturday, January 5, 2019

First Woman on the Moon

While looking for a woman to highlight on “Women in the News”, I asked myself the question -

Who was the first woman on the moon?

To answer that question, I went to the faithful Google search tab on my computer and looked it up. 

No woman has visited the moon.  During that time in NASA history, there were no women in the US astronaut corps.

I don’t find this offensive in anyway as it was a different day and age. The lack of women in the astronaut corps does not tarnish or diminish the incredible missions that changed the world.

Women may not have been on the moon, but women were always behind the scenes as a critical foundation for those who go beyond.

We find in history that women were not always afforded the same opportunities as their male counterparts, but I know that women were not irrelevant in these same opportunities. It is like the movie Jaws. The enormous man-eating shark was the main character in the movie yet what would the movie have been without the people to stalk, scare, and eventually eat?

Supporting roles in the movies and in life are critical to the end masterpiece. While some are the leading characters, the story would be non-existent without the entire cast.

Info from NASA Website

Monday, July 16, 2018

Surely This Time Putin Will Admit It!

Trump and Putin Summit

The meeting of two of the most influential leaders in the world has the potential to be disastrous or extremely successful.

Both men are professional negotiators and are capable of intelligent conversations.  While many don't have any confidence in President Trump we can look at his "fruit", which there is some that even a Democrat has to admit to.

My issue this morning is how many times is President Trump supposed to ask President Putin if Russia meddled in our elections? Trump has already asked him and who in their right mind would think Putin would actually admit to it? Let's say some in Russia did meddle does that mean all of Russia did? Does that mean the President knew it was happening and is accountable for it?

Come on people, Putin will not just admit to it and asking him over and over again will not produce a different outcome.

Are people so naive as to think America has never had influence in an election or government?

This somewhat new type of influence in social media has produced an enormous challenge that many did not anticipate and I don't believe we totally understand the scope of the influence of it.

Any type of outside influence into an American election is unacceptable and those involved should be prosecuted if possible and if not prosecuted they need to be held accountable in what ever way is legal and just.

Back to this summit, the news should not focus on the one question that has already been asked but instead investigate the other topics discussed at this summit.

The press conference will be soon, we will see.

Monday, January 1, 2018

Valley of Pits

There have been a few times in my life I thought I hit bottom. 

Everyone has a bottom from whence to rise from.

And while I was able to conquer the depths of the former pits, it seems I have stumbled into an even deeper one.

We all have our limits of what we can "handle" in life.  I've come to terms with the fact I'm a bad wife, mom, friend, business person, and christian.

I've failed at every single thing I thought I was good at and failed at everything I knew I was bad at.

I don't blame some people for not wanting to talk to me.

I don't blame some of my family for rejecting me.

I take total responsibility for the pit I now find myself in. do I get out of it and not fall right back in?

That is the journey I'll take you on with me...why?

Why not....

Sunday, December 17, 2017

What's in a name?

I love my name. I think it’s beautiful. 
I love the way it sounds rolling off the tongue with that initial breath of a Hebraic “H” like a gentle whisper, followed by the ending of the strong, cutting vowel “A.” Even the vocal inflexions suit me. I love that it’s spelled uniquely from the other thousands of individuals with my name. And I love its action: “She is gracious.”
However, only until recently did I truly appreciate my name and begin adopt it as my … well, as my motto. It is who I am, after all.

And it’s made a big difference.

Care to nerd out with me for a few minutes? Ok, great.

What’s in a name?
Apparently, a lot. 
So, the study of names actually has a name: onomastics. According to Behind the Name, this field touches on linguistics, history, anthropology, psychology, sociology, philology and more. Clearly, there’s a lot of information behind names.
But, I want to talk about a name’s etymology – the literal denotation of the word.
The meaning behind names has ancient cultural significance. According to a 1997 article by Kristine Elliott, last updated in 2014 in the Society for Creative Anachronism, the origin of name-giving selection is largely unknown. 
“Most names appear to have had some sort of original meaning, usually descriptive, rather than being simply pleasing collection of sounds,” Elliott writes.
Many names were developed from nouns or pronouns – case in point, “Conan” means “hound, wolf” and Fial means “modest, honorable, generous” in Gaelic.
“A more elaborate descriptive naming practice is exemplified in the Bible when Rachel names her son Benoni or ‘son of my sorrow,’” Elliott writes of a story from the Biblical book, Genesis. “And his father, Jacob, re-names him Benjamin, ‘son of the right hand.’”
Some names were also compounds – for example, Sigibert is Frankish for “victory-shining.” Others would create compound words including names of their gods – like the Norse name Thorbjorn.
With the rise of Christianity, many parents were encouraged to name their children after Biblical figures, saints and martyrs – Jewish and GrecoRoman names.

Names like Hanna.

Although, while mine is most often associated with the Biblical figure, Hannah, its spelling comes from Gaelic origins.

***WARNING - nerd level is about to rise to an all-time high***

On, the name Hanna is listed in more than 1 million historical documents; 314,904 birth, marriage and death certificates; 200,458 census and voter lists; 42,071 military records; 36,727 immigration records; and 410,425 member family trees.
There are 84-250 people with the name Hanna in the state that I live in with the majority of other U.S. states having only 1-83 per state.
Generally, according to 1880 Federal Census Data, the top three occupations for historical Hannas were 39 percent farmers, 9 percent laborers and 7 percent home keepers.
In the Civil War, according to war service records, 946 Hannas served in the military – can someone say “bad ass” – with the majority being Union, 578.
Hanna primarily originates in Ireland, then England, Germany, Great Britain, Syrian Arab Republic and Scotland – according to immigration New York Passengers Lists. This makes sense, because my family is Irish.

As far as etymology goes...
According to Ancestry, the spelling “Hanna” is a shortened form of the Gaelic name O hAnnaigh – meaning, descendant of Annach. St. Anne is a popular figure in medieval art and legend. Scottish, it’s a variation of Hannay. German, it’s a pet form of Hans. It’s also an English medieval female personal name stemming from the lore that Hanna was the name of the Biblical Virgin Mother Mary’s mother and means “God has favored me.”
And that’s where it all goes back to that Hebrew origin from the story in which Hannah, who was barren, becomes pregnant – “favored by God” with a child.


***If you’ve been skimming through, this is a good place to jump back in because it’s getting less nerdy HERE***
P.S. You can find all this detailed info about your name by visiting I highly recommend.

Fast forward some several thousand years to Dec. 13, 2017. 
I work in a deadline-based environment where even the greatest amount of “planning ahead” can easily turn on a dime. As someone who despises procrastination, I plan weeks in advance for projects – probably earlier than necessary – to avoid last-minute problems. It’s preventive maintenance. 
That afternoon, I was feeling great about the amount of work that had been done for that day’s deadline – compiled neatly and ready to go. And then I got some terrible news that shook my day: One of my staff members had written down the wrong deadline and hadn’t even begun working on the assigned project.

My blood boiled. 
Now, “telling people off” is simply not in my nature. No matter how badly I think of or feel about someone – momentarily or long-lasting – I rarely have exploded on a person. When I am angry, I tend to go quiet. Dangerously quiet. Terrifyingly quiet.

So, I went quiet and then the kettle began to whistle as steam poured from my ears.

But, see there’s this thing. My name means gracious. And it’s something I’ve adopted, remember? Standing in front of the desk of this staff member with the heat rising in my face and several four-letter words jumping around in mixed variations through my brain, I remembered that I AM GRACIOUS, SO HELP ME GOD.

So, I assessed how things went wrong, explained the place it now put our team in and then asked the employee in question to immediately prepare a plan to fix it. And he did.

This is just one way I’ve applied my namesake to my life – how it’s become something I’ve claimed as not just the historical denotation of my name, but who I am as a person.

And gracious? Here’s what Merriam-Webster says it means:
  1. Archaic, pleasing, acceptable
  2. Marked by kindness and courtesy
  3. Graceful
  4. Marked by tact and delicacy
  5. Characterized by charm, good taste, generosity of spirit
  6. Merciful, compassionate

Again, I love my name. And the really funny thing is that, before I truly researched the meaning behind “Hanna,” these traits were already things I strived for. 
I grew up in a home where my dad was very sick for many years. There was no room to be “extra.” My natural behavior assumes a gracious disposition, but it was also a choice I made.

Now, as a wife and student medical practitioner, these traits take on an even more vital meaning to my life – I strive to show compassion and graciousness to the people I encounter in all situations, from my spouse to my family to my future patients.

So my charge to you?
Who are you?

I’m not necessarily talking about the literal denotation of your name. Mine just randomly happens to align with the baseline behavior I strive for. This whole thing? It’s simply a lesson and a charge on making daily decisions to be who YOU are.

What do you want to be known for? What's that baseline behavior from which you build the remainder of your words, actions and thought processes?

It’s easy to lose sight of who we are in the middle of a million expectations pressing from spouses, family, work and beyond. But, I’d encourage you to re-identify, or maybe discover for the first time what YOU mean. 

I’m Hanna the gracious.
And, from that point, I strive for my words and actions to reflect that core element of my personhood.

What about you?
What are those definable traits that are the motto by which you create a baseline for your actions?

Sunday, October 29, 2017

Martial science: The Adam Study

It’s day 1,062 of the Adam Study.
That’s nearly three years since he asked me on our first date — Dec. 2, 2014 — and, tomorrow, it will be two years to the day since he asked me to marry him, Oct. 30, 2015. Today marks about three years of analytical data compiled within the gray matter between my ears including his habits, expressions, non-verbals, verbal responses, body language and so on.

Does this sound creepy? Probably a little.
Let me explain.

I love personality assessments. No, not “What-icecream-flavor-are-you-based-on-these-10-random-questions” personality assessments. I love the science of personality, the chemical processes that fluctuate person to person and comprise the composition of me and you and that person and the next.

Neurology, psychology, data analysis in general: I love it. I always have.

As a child, I was quiet and I’m still what is called an extroverted introvert — a sort of middle ground on the spectrum of social expression personalities. This personality type makes me an INTJ, based on the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator.
According to Myers-Briggs, this means I operate on introverted intuition, extroverted thinking, introverted feeling and extroverted sensing – which makes up about 2 percent of the population and is an even rarer personality for females; about 25 percent of INTJs are women. This personality relies on data and analytics, plans ahead, and spends a lot of time in their heads.

It’s only natural then that when I began dating Adam, I immediately took to studying him because I genuinely wanted to learn more about him. That’s how I experience the world around me, by collecting information and asking questions.

I think this analysis is one of the reasons why I fell in love with him, too. See, he’s very difficult to read — a less exaggerated Capt. Ray Holt from Brooklyn Nine-Nine. He’s always calm, always collected and always generally pleasant. It’s one of the aspects that makes him a great medical practitioner. It also makes it difficult to tell what he’s thinking sometimes.

But, because I am an INTJ, his demeanor and psychological processes fascinated me and I wanted to learn more about him as our relationship progressed. The way he cares deeply, the way he assesses situations and brings calm and clarity – the more I learned about his brain the more I fell in love with it.

Now, that did sound creepy.
But, you see what I mean.

But, this is why I’m a firm believer in studying those close to you – even if you’re not the thoroughly analytic type. You may be the exact opposite of me in personality, but there is still benefit to taking the time to really learn about each other.

As an EMS wife, this is particularly important for me. Early on, I knew that it was going to be very important for me to understand his mental processes if our relationship was going to succeed. He is a very strong man with an incredible internal process of handling and assessing situations. Like I said, his mind fascinates me. His bosses have applauded him for a personality which is able to handle trauma in a very unique way. It’s a rare personality and it’s one built for care taking. But, care takers also need to be taken care of.

We are very similar in the sense that we are both care takers by nature. However, our mental processes of assessing situations can differ. He is more internal than I am. I enjoy talking out situations with trusted individuals to sort out my thoughts. He sorts out his thoughts internally and then expresses his assessment externally afterward.
Since we know how the other person processes situations — whatever the case may be — we are better able to be a trustworthy, reliable and non-judgemental partner.

And that’s why I continue to study Adam and plan to do so for the rest of our marriage.
If we don’t agree, I want to know what his mental processes are that have led him to his opposing conclusion. Rather than dismissing his logic, I’d rather learn why he thinks the way he does and come to a valid conclusion. It’s like a courtroom proceeding and I greatly prefer that to arguing. So does he.
I made him take marriage counselor and author Gary Chapman’s “The Five Love Languages” test to determine how he best perceives love and acts of affection.

My great-grandmother always said fear is the absence of knowledge. I think this also applies to marriage and relationships and is why the Adam Study really has no end. I’ll continue to learn everything I can about him to learn better how to express my love, be his best friend through the happy and difficult times, and fine tune my conflict response.

I’m not a Gary Chapman. I’m just a nerdy INTJ who’s one year into her marriage with a man she’s crazy about. But, I do know that if I’m crazy about something, I’m going to learn everything I can about it. And I have facts to back that up – facts from people like Chapman or the Myers-Briggs test that are based on psychology and science.

On that first date, I was thrilled to ask questions and learn all the new things about him – as all first dates implicate. So, you might say, my continued learning of Adam is an extension of that first-date curiosity and wonder. The Adam Study is still new, but it’s made me even more thrilled to spend the rest of my life with my husband.
Yeah, saying it that way sounds a lot less creepy.

Wednesday, October 4, 2017

Traumatic Brain Injury Continues

Concussion Syndrome

Many Suffer - Few Understand

As a wife of someone with TBI, I can empathize with those who suffer in their marriage because of this unfortunate result of head injury.

There is so much to be said about TBI but for today I only want to say

I Understand
I Feel the Pain
I Know the Hard Days
I Have So Much to Say But Don't Feel I Can

But I Will

Often times people only see what we want them to see, not the hurt of being a care giver to someone with TBI. While my heart goes out to those with TBI, just know, beautiful woman, you are not forgotten.

Tuesday, October 3, 2017

Introduction: Hanna Smith

"The world is a book and those who 
do not travel read only one page."
-St. Augustine

It's the idea of life as a book. We are ultimately stories, after all. Our material belongings and physical bodies are entirely fallible. So, our greatest impact left behind are the memories we shared and the stories that are told when we are long gone.
So a story, essentially, becomes our ultimate legacy.

Hello — my name's Hanna Smith, Sheri's daughter and a new blogger on The Lemonade Digest women's blog. I'll be collaborating with my mom doing posts together and independently as we share our thoughts, adventures and more on this blog.

A little about me: I am the wife of a talented emergency medical technician, Adam. We have been married a little over a year, but have known each other the majority of our lives. I am the features editor of a business newspaper, prior to which I worked as a news reporter covering the justice system. Journalism is one of my greatest passions, and I am proud to be the eyes and ears of the community through news writing.

I am also a student surgical technologist, currently in my first year of studies. Never heard of a surgical tech? We work in the operating room maintaining the sterile field and providing a third set of hands during the operation. I plan to specialize in neurosurgery, the most effective method to treat chronic pain. I am very passionate about chronic-pain awareness and you'll find frequent posts on this topic here in addition to STEM related topics.

Although my husband and I live in southwest Missouri, travel is a large part of our lives. I make this priority as a firm believer that travel is one of the most worthwhile investments a person can make. It sweetens the story and broadens worldview.

Through my upcoming blog posts, I hope to share how I am trying to consistently dive into each page of each stage of my life — and I hope to encourage you to do the same. Life has made me resilient from a young age and taught me that experience is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself.

Please comment on any of my posts and discuss your views or something you've learned in your own life relating to the topic. Agree? Add information. Disagree? Voice your opinion. I want to hear it either way.

I look forward to being part of this blog and sharing life through it's (online) pages.